The endless horror of the cover ups and dishonesty and the impact on my life.
As you know, I have been in shock recently as it was revealed that Dame Steel has indeed done as expected and destroyed me on behalf of the wrongdoers who she has covered up for in her report.I have also been on antibiotics, and I never react well to them, I don’t react well to most medicines. So I have been in a bit of a stupor.
I think I will go through various things here.
According to Bob Hill’s account of his meeting with Dame Heather Steel, she made me out to be a violent troublemaker who threatens people in their homes.Who I am supposed to have threatened I do not know, as far as I know I threatened no-one until right at the end when the Bishop’s refusal to deal with my complaint and the unrelenting distress I was put under by the Dean and Deanery, Jane Fisher and the Bishop, drove me to breaking point.
Apparently Dame Steel’s report says the Dean met with me because the A’s had made a formal complaint about me harrassing them, presumably this is stating that he did not meet me to deal with my complaint of abuse.If this is the case, which it isn’t, don’t you think that is very very bad practice indeed? For these reasons among others:
- The Dean certainly did not make this clear
- why did the Dean, being confronted with my abuse complaint on one hand, and a known offender all of a sudden making a formal complaint of harrassment against me on the other, immediately contact the Diocese of Winchester, and also make it clear to me what was going on?
- And no matter if the avertys had made a complaint of harrassment, I had made a complaint of sexual abuse and A was known to the church as an offender (which I was not told about or warned about), why was it appropriate for the Dean to see the A’s first? It was not.
- No mention of the A’s making a formal complaint was made to me, the Dean was trying to dissuade me from making a complaint against the A’s, saying things like ‘isn’t abuse a bit of a harsh word for this?’ etc.
There were no unpleasant letters from me to anyone except where I was being harmed in some way, I am reactive and have responded to being hurt. In the case of the A’s I was being sexually and emotionally abused, and in the case of A’s Vicar, he and his wife were ignoring my concerns and my deterioration at A’s hands and were allowing A to proceed to hurt me and complain to them and discuss me with them repeatedly in a derogatory way while refusing to speak to me, the cult atmosphere and the way I was lied to by the Vicar and his wife also harmed me. And all things considered, the Vicar and his wife’s attitude when they knew this man was an offender, and the way they discussed me with him negatively while refusing to speak to me, all the while knowing I was obviously increasingly upset, is unspeakably appalling. Basically, despite his history, he was allowed to take me home and abuse me, I deteriorated and nothing was done.