I hope Eli doesn’t mind

Eli sent me this link and I am just going to put the link here while I wait his permission to put the link here, because I don’t know when I am next online.  http://www.itv.com/news/2013-05-10/former-choirboy-issues-cofe-abuse-cover-up-claims/ What I find tough about the headlines is the ‘press speak’ the ‘claims’ and ‘allegations’ press speak, that can leave…

The letter sent to Jersey police complaints department 13/02/09

If anyone wonders why I went mad, this is why. The incidents described in this letter below this paragraph. To me, being regressed and abused and thrown away, being told the police results in an email and being immediately brutalized and locked up – very deliberately omitted from the Korris report, which goes on about…

Anything and everything

I am considering doing a linked blog to my childhood story, which is fully written. But I thought to get back into the Jersey story, I will try to do a brief chronology. It was  July 2008 when I arrived in Jersey.I met the churchwarden in July or August. The Churchwarden ‘adopted’ me within weeks…

Abuse enquiries

It is terrible that a so-called ‘Christian organization’ who get charitable status as well as being a government department, could do such a terrible thing as put their image before the needs of abuse victims, especially in the Chichester Case, where victims were promised a full enquiry, which was used as part of the ‘hug…

‘Statement’ sent to the Diocese on 28/07/2013 and posted on the previous church blog

 The statement below was written for the Diocese last summer, and here I am in March, alive, in one piece, and even housed, after a fashion, but still suffering. Amazing how things have changed, my life feels completely different and my circumstances are very different but I still believe that either the stress of this…

This is a very honest but ‘bitty’ and embarassing and scattered statement written in 2008

Be warned this is not nice easy reading, I felt like I was on trial from the moment the Dean tried to squash my complaint and further so when JM and her distorted views became involved. I wrote honestly and putting other people in as good a light as I could, but I was very hurt…

Jersey revisited -Korris omissions and inaccuracies, continued

I guess now that I have busted the miffs about what happened before I came to Jersey.I had better start on Jersey stuff.This is tricky, because trauma still wipes out my memory of Jersey, and there are so many documents and emails that it is difficult to know where to start.I guess I had better…

lets go back, 11

Once in the flat I realised that I was mistaken that I felt I had to see the doctor and take anti-depressants, I had been afraid through JM that if I didn’t then I would  be in trouble, but the anti-depressants were doing nothing for me, and I did  not want to see the doctor,…